Do you know what tomorrow is?
Tomorrow…is Saturday. It’s October 25. It’s TWO MONTHS UNTIL CHRISTMAS.
Wow. How is it this late in the game already?!
I LOVE Christmas. LOVE. IT. It’s a wonderful time of fun and fellowship with folks we don’t get to see very often, and, of course, the celebration of the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ!
Even so, it tends to be kind of a stressful time for me. Let me explain:
- I’m wrapping up all things end-of-the-year at my full time job (insurance marketing) and planning for the next year, so there’s a lot going on there. Plus the mailings and special promotions and parties.
- Oh, the parties. I think people should space out their gatherings so there aren’t 25 people wanting to have their Christmas Open House on the same Saturday in December. But, between our friends, family and coworkers, there are a LOT of PARTIES we jet around to. And I’m normally in charge of bringing something.
- I’m planning and prepping and baking for all the folks I do baked goods for.
- I’m planning and shopping and prepping and wrapping all the gifts.
- We’re rehearsing and perfecting and performing all of our Christmas musical events with the choir and worship team from our church. These normally include color-coordinated clothing mandates, so then I’m shopping and coordinating and making dry cleaners runs galore!
- Oh, and Christmas is one of the busiest times ever for me and my photography business (when I offer specials and rush turnarounds, etc.) Most nights I’m up into the wee hours of the morning editing and prepping packages. Roughly 4 hours of sleep per night in the Christmas season, yep, that’s about what I get.
It’s pretty sad how excited I got just typing all of that stuff up! No matter HOW crazy it gets, I STILL LOVE IT, and every year I try to perfect my strategy, so that our Christmas is not like our first Christmas together.
It’s funnier now than it was then, actually. It was 11:55 p.m. on Christmas Eve, and I was just getting started in the kitchen on the food for Christmas Day. I was exhausted already, so I wasn’t really enjoying the food prep.
My husband was in the living room, doing his best to set up a set of speakers for the TV that his parents had given to him earlier in the day. He was exhausted, too, and the setup wasn’t going well.
At exactly midnight, I thought, “OH! It’s Christmas now! Our first one together as a married couple! I’m gonna go wish him a Merry Christmas!
I walked into the living room.
Me: Hey baby, guess what?
Hubby: (In an exasperated tone) What?
Me: It’s Christmas!
Hubby: Uh huh.
Me: Exactly right now, it just turned Christmas! Our first one together! Merry Christmas!
Hubby: (Throws down the screwdriver) I can’t get this stupid thing to work with the dadgum TV!!!!!
I went back to the kitchen.
My point is, I LOVE the time of year that is fast-approaching, and I want to be able to enjoy it, even with all the craziness that goes on! I still want to have FUN!
So…I want to share with you all the top three things I do each year that help me out BIG TIME. These are things I have already started doing and they make a huge difference in the long run. Are you ready?
Plan it. Yep, plan it. Sounds simple enough, right? What I mean is, get out a calendar and chart everything that you have to do between now and January 1. Some of these things you know for sure already – put them in ink. Some things you’re not for sure yet – put them in pencil. Once more things are added to your schedule, you can see it all right there in front of you, and then you know when you need to start saying NO to things. And it’s okay to say NO to things…because if YOU run yourself into the ground trying to do everything (voice of experience here) you’ll be no good to anyone else. Oh, and you’ll be miserable. So plan it.
Decide it. If you do baked goods for folks, decide NOW what you will bake. Locate all your recipes and get your shopping lists in order. Then, when it’s time to start the work, you’re totally prepared. If you do gifts, decide NOW what type of wrapping paper you need. Start gathering the supplies that you can (tape, ribbon, tissue paper) and making sure you’re stocked so you’re not running out of things at the last minute. OH, and here’s a FANTASTIC secret! Decide NOW what your gifts to others will be. Well, at least decide by Thanksgiving, and have the money saved for those gifts. Why? On Cyber Monday (which is the Monday after Thanksgiving when TONS of stuff on the internet are on sale at amazing discounts, I sit down with our Christmas list at the computer and order every last gift. EVERY SINGLE ONE. I transfer the money from savings into the checking account, and then sit back for the next few weeks and watch the presents arrive AT MY FRONT DOOR. I have plenty of time to get everything taken care of, I save HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS, and I don’t have to mess with all the crazy Christmas shoppers. All because I decided it ahead of time.
Follow through. Seriously. Don’t look at your calendar and say, “Why on earth did I want to decide what our Christmas cards would be TODAY? I’ve got plenty of time!” Don’t do it. Don’t ask questions, don’t put it off, just follow through. You’ll remember why when suddenly, before anyone else has their Christmas cards completed, you’re good to go. You’ll be so glad you followed through.
Want a glimpse at what I have on my calendar so far? Here ya go!
October 25: 2 Months until Christmas, our Christmas Card photo shoot
November 3: Begin Christmas Card List
November 10: Decide on Christmas gifts
November 17: Decide on Christmas baking and 2 weeks until Cyber Monday, design and order Christmas cards
November 25: 1 Month until Christmas, One Week until Cyber Monday
November 28: Decorate for Christmas
November 29: Decorate for Christmas
November 30: Decorate for Christmas
December 1: Cyber Monday, Start on Christmas Card Labels
December 11: Mail Christmas Cards, deadline for photo shoots
December 12: Program dress rehearsal
December 13: Family Party, program performance #1
December 14: Program performance #2
December 18: Mail out-of-town Gifts
December 25: CHRISTMAS! HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JESUS!
Throw into all of the above that, during the dates listed, I also have to do more than a dozen photo shoots, we celebrate 7 birthdays, we celebrate 2 anniversaries, our choir will be doing several community performances that I don’t have dates for yet, and I also know of at least 6 holiday parties that I don’t have dates for yet.
Oh, but I’ve got one more nugget for you! Check out 100 Days to Christmas. GO THERE. Sign up with your email address, and every day you will receive a reminder or a point of inspiration or a helpful hint, all the way up until Christmas Day! Great, huh? I have a feeling it’s gonna be the best Christmas ever!
How do YOU plan your Christmas so everything runs smoothly? I wanna know!
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